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Oct 15Liked by Zhenya Zerkalenkov

Thank you for this article – it really resonates with me. For a long time, I felt trapped by the need to be perfect, constantly trying to meet the expectations of others – whether it was my parents, society, or relationships. I thought perfection would make me worthy, but instead, it caused anxiety, self-doubt, and a disconnect from who I really am.

Discovering the concept of wabi sabi has been freeing. Embracing imperfection has allowed me to let go of unrealistic expectations and focus on my own journey. It’s a reminder that there’s beauty in flaws, growth, and the lessons life brings.

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Happy to hear that I could add some value to your life, my wonderful wife. You've always been perfect as you are ❤️ :)

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Oct 14·edited Oct 14Liked by Zhenya Zerkalenkov

Thanks for sharing, Zhenya! As a designer, I've learned that creativity is not about seeking perfection, but about embracing openness, curiosity, and the flaws that make our work — and us — authentic.

It's also about adapting to uncertainty and making continuous adjustments through movement in what we do. Great reminder!

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As a writer and someone who has journeyed in design, I have often struggled with perfection. But you’re right—creativity is not about seeking perfection. It goes beyond perfection. And adapting to uncertainty and making continuous adjustments through movement in what we do is even something we can all benefit from in every aspect of our lives :)

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